“That’s not a joke”

Dikshakapil
2 min readSep 18, 2024

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Mocking or demeaning others isn’t cool even if it’s done in the guise of humor.

In today's world, humor is often used in ways that hurt and belittle others. It's important to understand the line between making people laugh and making them feel small. Many people cross that line without realizing it, and some do it on purpose.

Mocking or making fun of someone, especially when it highlights their struggles or disadvantages, is not real humor. It's essential to recognize that putting others down doesn't make us better; it just shows that we lack empathy and sensitivity.

Just because someone laughs along doesn't mean they're not hurting inside. Many people ignore hurtful comments to avoid conflict or because they feel pressured to fit in. This can lead to hidden emotions and inner pain.

It's important to remember that a person's outward reaction doesn't always reflect how they truly feel inside.

Similarly, if someone stays silent when being ridiculed, it doesn't mean they agree with the mockery.

Many people stay quiet because they fear confrontation or judgment. Their silence doesn't mean they are okay with being the target of a joke.

Society tends to take people who express their emotions seriously, while those who hide their feelings are often dismissed or taken advantage of.

Those who struggle to express themselves may be seen as "fine" when they're really not. This makes them vulnerable to mockery because they seem unaffected.

Everyone has personal boundaries that deserve respect. Just because someone shows certain aspects of their personality doesn't mean others have the right to exploit those traits.

When others cross these boundaries, they often justify it as "just a joke," but in reality, they are taking advantage of the person's openness or perceived vulnerabilities.

A good joke should never come at the expense of someone's dignity. When jokes are used to put others down, they stop being funny and become tools of exclusion.

Does mocking others make a person "cool" or popular? No. Being kind, inclusive, and understanding is what truly matters.

Mocking someone doesn't make a person superior or more intelligent; it shows a lack of emotional intelligence and compassion.

Being the subject of jokes can damage a person's self-esteem and contribute to anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation. People should be aware of how their words and actions can affect others.

Real humour brings people together and includes everyone. It doesn’t create divisions.

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Dikshakapil

Penning down thoughts and sharing words that heal🤍